Eric,
Sorry to hear about your misfortune; it happens to the best of us. I only recommend B-LINE Body Shop, Inc. "BMW Specialists" in San Jose, since they are the BEST. They offer a friendly environment and do flawless work. However, quality does come at a premium... they are a little bit pricier than the usual shops -not by much. Then again, it's a Bimmer... can't skimp on that! Plus, I can sleep peacefully knowing my car is in the safe hands of dedicated Bimmer enthusiasts. I believe this alone justifies the extra cost, without mentioning your car will look better than new.
Phone: (408) 279-4500
Fax: (408) 298-4043
Address: 161 Patterson Street
San Jose, CA 95112
Regards,
Ben
p.s. Your baby will be fine in no time!